Sunday, December 13, 2015

Biblical Hospitality (Part 1)

(Transcription of a lesson taught at Landmark Baptist Church, GA, on December 13, 2015.)


BIBLICAL HOSPITALITY
1 Peter 4:7-11


The context of this passage is the “end of all things” (v. 7) for Israel, which is who Peter is writing to. [Compare 1 Pt. 1:1 (“the strangers scattered…”) to Jas. 1:1 (“to the twelve tribes which are scattered abroad”). Paul never refers to members of Christ’s body as strangers (only Gentiles in times past; cf. Eph. 2:12). “Strangers” (and “pilgrims”) are kingdom terms used in the old testament and in the general epistles, showing their unity.]

Project yourself forward to the time of Jacob’s trouble (Jer. 30:7). Won’t it be tough to be hospitable then? The practical point here is that as the last days approach, both in the mystery age and Daniel’s seventieth week, people are going to be less and less hospitable, since they’ll become more and more “lovers of their own selves” etc. (2 Tim. 3:2) and “because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold” (Mt. 24:12). So we need to note the importance of hospitality in all ages, since it’s a timeless grace. Before there was scripture reminding men of the duty of hospitality, it was written on their hearts, as we’ll see from examples pre-dating scripture.

In this series I’d like to (1) define hospitality; (2) present examples of it through the entire canon (Genesis – 3 John), both good and bad; and (3) conclude with applications for the body of Christ. The first lesson defines the grace and begins the examples. The second lesson continues the examples, and the third will wrap up any remaining examples and discuss applications to members of Christ’s body.

You’ve probably noticed that I like to define the graces that I teach about. But that’s not to get too technical with them. Someone said, “An infinite question is often destroyed by finite answers. To define everything is to annihilate much that gives us laughter and joy.” I agree with that. Sometimes you cannot define something, and the Bible makes that clear (cf. Job 38-39). My intent, though, is to see how scripture defines these graces, not society or culture, and show how God wants to express them in the body of Christ.


DEFINITION
While it’s easy enough to find a definition of hospitality in Webster’s Dictionary, it’s not as easy to find one in the Bible itself. So I’m going to present my best attempt at it, and you decide if you agree. I looked at the passages around the four mentions of hospitality, and the best clue I found was in a comparison of 1 Tim. 3:2 to 1 Tim. 5:9-10.

In 1 Tim. 3:1-7 Paul presents a list of requirements for bishops (notice “must be” in v. 2). One of those is found in v. 2: “given to hospitality.” Later, in 1 Tim. 5, he gives a list of requirements that widows must meet before the church supports them in lieu of family.

Two requirements in the widows’ list, I believe, throw light on the definition of hospitality: “if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints’ feet” (v. 10). So the essence of hospitality is taking people in (“lodged strangers”) and meeting their physical needs (“washed the saints’ feet”).

We find a great example of this in the elderly farmer who hosted the Levite and his concubine in Judg. 19. Look at 19:15-22 and notice the following:

·         “…there was no man that took them into his house to lodging” (v. 15); a very cold city, as we see in the horror that follows.
·         However, there is one person who cares about the stranger: one of his kinsmen from Ephraim (vv. 16-17).
·         The Levite says that their needs are covered, other than lodging, and reveals the duties of the host: food for their animals (transport), and food and drink for the travelers.
·         In vv. 20-21, the farmer amplifies these duties: “Peace be with thee; howsoever, let all thy wants lie upon me; only lodge not in the street. So he brought him into his house and gave provender unto the asses: and they washed their feet, and did eat and drink.”
·         “Let all thy [physical] wants lie upon me” sums up hospitality to me. It includes lodging men and beasts, feeding them, providing for bodily cleansing, and ensuring their safety. These are basic laws of hospitality.

A hospital is a place you go to renew your strength; physical or mental, hence hospitality is generally connected with the home, as we’ll see in further examples. But it isn’t restricted to the home, since it’s a spiritual grace. One can take hospitality to others—e.g. food to the sick and grieving in our culture—or act hospitably away from the home. Two great examples of “taking it to the streets” are Barzillai in the old testament (2 Sam. 17) and the good Samaritan (Luke 10:30-37) and Onesiphorus in the new testament (2 Tim. 1:16-18), all of which we’ll consider later.


EXAMPLES

Job (Job 31:31-32)
I’d like to begin with the oldest book in the Bible, if not the first specific act of hospitality, which will come next. Job lived in the days of the patriarchs, before the Exodus and giving of the law. His friend Eliphaz is a Temanite, and Teman was Esau’s grandson (Gen. 36:11). Furthermore, Elihu is a Buzite (Job 32:2), and Buz was Abraham’s nephew (Gen. 22:21; note “the father of Aram,” matching “of the kindred of Ram” in Job 32:2). Finally, Lam. 4:21 shows us that Edomites dwelt in Uz, Job’s homeland, so Job may have been distantly related to Abraham, though likely living after him.
As I mentioned earlier, before there was any written law, it was written on men’s hearts that they should be hospitable. In Job’s final self-defense to his four friends (Elihu came along after chapter 2), he mentions his hospitality (v. 31). Notice, “stranger…lodge…opened my doors…the traveller.” Are you seeing the unity in these passages? the importance of being hospitable? To Job, it’s a matter of righteousness before God, and God notes Job’s personal righteousness twice in Ezek. 14:14, 20).
For us in the body of Christ, it doesn’t affect our standing before God, but “the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness and righteousness and truth” Paul said (Eph. 5:9), and if we’re walking in the Spirit, we’ll produce righteousness, which includes hospitality.
Our God cares for the stranger (Ex. 22:21; Eph. 2:11-21); shouldn’t we whom he indwells?

Abraham (Gen. 18:1-8)
·         Abraham hosting the Lord and two angels is the first specific act of hospitality I found in scripture.
·         He provided water for their feet, a place to rest, and high quality food; he’s certainly blessed for it, amen? The divine promise of a son and…a chance of intercede for Lot after the promise is made (18:16-33)
·         He had discernment to welcome these special, supernatural guests.
o   Heb. 13:2 is a great reference on hospitality, but it’s not referring to Abraham; both he and Lot knew that their guests were heavenly.
·         Do you have the discernment to welcome heavenly guests, i.e. other believers? We’ll talk more about the importance of that in our final lesson.

Lot (Gen. 19:1-8)
·         Hospitality involves protecting those under your roof, as we saw with the elderly farmer and the Levite; your guests have entrusted their safety to you. Lot is rewarded for his hospitality also, in a sense: the angels deliver him, his wife, and two of his daughters. Both he and Abraham discern the angels, but their fates are quite different due to the choices the two men made leading up to these fateful meetings

Rebekah and family (Gen. 24:12-33)
·         Which girl was the servant’s sign as the right bride for Isaac? a hospitable one (good indication that she was righteous, as well as pure)
·         Laban is hospitable too, but perhaps with ulterior motive (it’s noted that he saw the earring and bracelets); could be foreshadowing the greed he would show his nephew, Jacob, years later

Pharaoh (Gen. 47:1-6)
·         Even the heathen can be hospitable to those in need.
·         He gives the Hebrews the best land in Egypt and offers them jobs.
·         Granted, Pharaoh did appreciate Joseph, but he didn’t have to welcome his kin, especially in light of their abominable profession.




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